3 year drought...Oi Vey.

So I was thinkin the other day while driving my car....not quite sure why I was really thinkin about it. There wasn't really any specific incident that brought it on. But yes this does come up every once in a while.

I haven't been on a DATE in almost 3 years....
There it is.... I said it.
It will be 3 years on Labor Day weekend. Sad that I know exactly when it all went down....shoot I could even tell ya what we did too C:
And 'tops it off'---it was a "It's Complicated" Blind Date..... sooooo not a good way to get the drought up and going.

Not sure where exactly my "MoJO" went. C:

Continuing on the road in the car- I got to thinking of some of the best "words of wisdom?" that I've received regarding my datelessness C:

"It happens when you're not looking."
"He's Out There."
"You'll find the right person for you."
"It will happen when you least expect it."
etc etc...
These ones are great. -BUT- I think " it " will happen whether you're looking for it or not. Some people just have crazy luck--other's not so much. You're not doing anything wrong by going out-meeting people and having a good time while your at it.

"How can you still be Single?"
"What is wrong with the guys these days?"
I figure these statements are meant to make me feel better about myself--that there's nothing wrong with me and what I'm doing. I've found myself saying these to other people as well and that's how I mean them to be taken anyway. -BUT- believe me, if I knew the answers to these questions- I wouldn't still be single.

"Have you tried Online Dating?"
when I get this one- I automatically think of this

hahaha! You bet I have -BUT- will I ever try it again????


negative.


"Some guy is going to come along and ruin your career/life plan."
hahaha! -BUT- still waiting for that one C;


"Wow, I wish I was still single and in your shoes!"
hahaha. -BUT-Really?
Again- I reckon this was said only to make me feel better. C:


This is kind of the first time that I've really ever talked about this cause A: I hate the pity and 2: maybe it's kind of embarassing and depressing. But I think that when this topic does come about- the best kind of advise given is just the good ol fashioned neutral grounds. "This too shall pass" or "There's so much to be grateful for right now/Count your blessings." etc. and ya know- I don't think that I'll ever get tired of hearing

"He's just not that into you."
So just get back up on that horse and keep holding on for dear life.
-BECAUSE- it's supposed to be a bumpy ride.





But in all honesty- I haven't really done anything to fix this. So it's half my own dang fault C: I guess if I'm not really willing to put in some of the work-I can't really expect it back right? I can't just sit around waiting for a love-life to come poke me in the shoulder.

So here I go. I'm gonna throw myself out to the universe. Date's every single weekend....ooh....maybe that's a bit......
NO! Bring it On! Jump into the Planner Fella's!!
I'm gonna Dry up this Drought. I'm forecasting some rain.
I'm gonna be the "Hang-Out Buddy" No More!...well except for...
NO!
I'm gonna..
Nip it in the Bud

Oi Vey. I'm gonna need some help ya'll.